GO DADDY HAS TO GO!

By Shirley M. Carolan

After a beautiful and very busy summer I ran into problems with “Go Daddy” for my website hosting.  I’ve not been able to resolve a simple mistake despite a certified letter to the founder, Mr. Rob Parsons on 9/3/2013 and email to their President.  Neither man responded to my request for help.

It seems when I came out of the hospital last February my domain name and web hosting were up for renewal.  I thought I had checked the appropriate renewal boxes and paid them for continuing service for my WordPress website.  Somewhere near the end of August I discovered Go Daddy had removed my website.  When I called them I was finally informed that the renewal hosting box was not checked but a new hosting box was?

To think something so simple as applying my funds from the “new” hosting box (which I don’t have)  to my “renewal”  account would be so complicated is absolutely mindblowing!  Now they want $150.00 in fees + penalties to resurrect my website, and extra money to resurrect my domain name.

I’ve been a customer of Go Daddy since 2007 with the same website and hosting package.  Now, the parting of the ways has come.  I need to start afresh with a new, simple  website and hosting package. 

I sincerely miss all the folks, from all over the world, who have been with me since the beginning and have sent me wonderful comments about my article, seminars and book.  I hope it won’t be too long before I am up and running again with a whole new website and hosting company.   I have some great articles that I want to post and get your feedback on.

 

Stay tuned!

Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
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GOODWILL INDUSTRIES RUNS AMOK!

By Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG

Several weeks ago I was getting ready to donate some clothing and household goods to one of my favorite charities:  Goodwill Industries (in my local town).  Lo and behold Scott Pelley on the 6 PM news ran a story about the misdeeds of Goodwill Industries International who pays its disabled employees less than minimum wage, in fact some are getting less than .22₵ an hour.   I could hardly believe my ears I was so stunned.  I waited a few days expecting to hear more news about this dreadful situation and I held up my donation.

There has been no follow up that I am aware of, so last week I decided to check out some websites on my own.  Sure enough several carried stories about Goodwill Industries and its mis-treatment of employees going back several years.   Where have I been living?  Do I only read or hear what I want to read and hear?  Some of the websites I checked out were:  www.CBS.com,www.Snopes.com, Ariana Hufffington Post, www.Wikipedia.com.

Part of the problem is that Goodwill Industries uses an antiquated method of determining payment to its employees, i.e, using a provision of the federal labor law to pay workers with disabilities less than the federal minimum wage, i.e. Section 14(c) of the Fair Labor Standards Act of 1938.  Goodwill counters that these folks would not have any employment or income but for them regardless of how low the pay is.

This situation has definitely soured me on a charity I loved, shopped at, as well as donated to over many years.  It’s not like finding out there’s no Santa Claus or Tooth Fairie after all.  It’s far more serious and I hope and pray Goodwill will take positive action to correct this horrendous situation quickly. 

As a result of the above, I have called DAV (Disabled American Veterans) locally to come and pick up my donations.  They are also an excellent charity and I love hearing the ads Gary Sinese has about them and all the good they do for our veterans.

I’d love to hear from you about your thoughts on the above.  Thank you!

Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com

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THE GREAT DEBATE – TOASTMASTERS

By Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G

My Carlsbad Toastmaster Club, Tick Talk Toastmasters, recently held a Club debate. The topic was “The Pros and Cons of Physician Assisted Suicide.”    While it is a controversial subject for many, I felt the participants excelled with dignity and compassion, and expertise in researching while sharing their feelings on this important subject.  I also feel this event will be  the highlight of our Club’s year.

Leading the debate was Deborah Corey who provided participants with Karl Popper Debate  Rules.  The debate was comprised ten parts. Six of these consisted of speeches (uninterrupted presentations by a designated speaker). The remaining four consisted of cross examination, i.e., a series of questions and answers involving one speaker from each side. There were two teams, each with three people. One team took the PRO position, and the other took the ANTI  position.  This enabled participants to focus on the core elements of a controversial issue while giving them an opportunity to follow the Karl Popper Debate Format:

•   emphasize tolerance for multiple points of view

•   emphasize the development of analytical thinking skills

•   instill in participants an appreciation for the value of teamwork

Pat Rarus was our moderator who kept things moving making sure our speakers kept within their allotted time frames and brought the meeting in on time!  We also had two evaluators giving their feedback to each team.

While I personally subscribe to the “Five Wishes” concept of how I want my final days to flow and have so notified my physician, I was deeply touched and impressed by the arguments on both sides of this controversial debate.  Their persuasion skills were outstanding.  It is also the sort of program that needs to be videotaped so future members can see how well rounded communicators we are at Tick Talk Toastmasters.

Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG

Writer ● Speaker ● Artist

artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663

http://www.shirleycarolan.com

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THE FIVE WISHES WORKSHOP

By Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G

April, for me, ended with a bang!  One of the perks of living in the Golden Triangle (Oceanside, Carlsbad, Vista) is that the senior citizen centers have such excellent activities to enjoy and are for every lifestyle.  Once a year the Carlsbad Senior Center holds a workshop entitled “THE FIVE WISHES.”   This workshop is presented by the Elizabeth Hospice of Escondido and I attended it last year.  I liked what I heard and expected to take some action to complete my “Five Wishes”  workbook.  I never got around to doing that …

February this year an emergency hospital stay made me realize the importance and necessity of having my “Five Wishes” workbook completed, and signed by my respective designees.  So, when I heard that Carlsbad was offering this workshop again I dropped everything and signed up.  I even gave up the COPD physical therapy class that day in La Jolla to do this!

So what is the “Five Wishes” workshop all about?  Basically it encompasses the following:

1.     Listing the person I want to make “care decisions” for me when I can’t.

2.    The kind of medical treatment I want, or don’t want.

3.    How comfortable I want to be (when I reach the end of my life)

4.    How I want people to treat me.

5.    What I want my loved ones to know.

Obviously, the last three wishes deal with my personal, spiritual and emotional wishes.  And by filling out in detail what I want to happen in the event of terminal/sudden serious illness, auto accident, cardiac arrest, etc. I will be helping my family, doctors, health care providers, friends and others in knowing what my wishes are without placing added burdens on them.  This is also a wonderful booklet to use if you are thinking about donating any organs when you pass on.  It should be signed and witnessed by two other people, and a copy given to your M.D.

The Five Wishes is for anyone over 18 years old, married, single, parents, adult children, and friends.  We were supplied the booklet at the workshop but you can order it for a nominal fee through:  “Aging With Dignity” www.agingwithdignity.org. I’ve just given you a bird’s eye view here but there is so much more to read and learn.  Our presenter, Theresa Gallegos, was outstanding and had a great sense of humor!  She can be reached at:  760-519-1441 or www.elizabethhospice.org.

For you curious folks, the Five Wishes began with Jim Towey who worked closely for 12 years with Mother Teresa.  For one year he also lived in a hospice which she ran in Washington, DC  This first hand experience inspired him to write the Five Wishes.  It has received overwhelming response and has been featured on CNN,  NBC’s Today Show as well as Time and Money magazines.

Good luck and I hope you will check this out.

Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.comhttp://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com

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THAT WAS THE WEEK THAT WAS!

By Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G

The week before Easter was filled with great activity for me.  For starters I was asked to judge (midweek) the St. Patrick’s School’s (in Carlsbad) annual speech contest!    This is always a joy to listen to what and how youngsters think today and a great opportunity to give back to my community.  Annette Latasa does a fabulous job of organizing and running this annual event.  Parents and teachers should be very proud of the work she does.

This year 16 students, both sexes, competed from grades 2 through 8.  Their topic was “What Person Has Influenced My Life the Most?”   The answers were as varied as the participants, ranging from Stephen Hawkins, to Supreme Court Judge Sonia Sotomayor, to the survivors of the Andes plane wreck. The winners were:  lst place Megan Wagner (5^th grade), 2^nd place Bailey Moncrief (8^th grade) and 3^rd place Ben Nash (6^th grade).  We judges found the winners to be just a point or two apart.  That’s how good the students were.

On Saturday, I attended a free seminar on “Genealogy” given by the local Mormon Church at their Library.  It was most interesting even though it was for beginners because it renewed my interest in this subject.  I learned new ways to research my ancestors and feel encouraged to pick up where I left off several years ago.  Also, the teacher, David Paskatt gave an excellent slide presentation and had great handouts/resources. 

On Sunday I attended the bi-annual Holistic Fair in Carlsbad.  I received complementary tickets to this event and passed them on to several friends, saving them the $10 admission fee per person.  This time there were no books to buy and overall the Fair was somewhat smaller than in past years.  I had 3 people tell me I am clairvoyant and should look into those talents.  One was Wynn Free, author of “The Reincarnation of Edgar Cayce” which I’ve read. He invited me back to his booth and gave me some information to contact him because he said he liked my energy.

The highlight of this Holistic Fair for me was the psychic reading I had with Darshini.   I’ve known this lady for many years but she’s always so busy after she delivers her mini-seminars that I never can get close to an appointment with her.  She also told me I am clairvoyant but have shoved these skills under the carpet since childhood.  I asked her was I a triplet at birth, even though I always say I am a twin?  She confirmed that I was indeed a triplet at birth and a little girl died.  My brother was born first at 12;30 am and I was born at 1:30 am, so there is an hour’s time difference…  The rest of the reading was also very exciting and I can’t wait to see what manifests in the future. 

Folks, that was the week that was and it’s been hectic ever since.  Stay tuned!

 Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com

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THE GOLDEN TRIANGLE

By Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G

I am so lucky to live in the Golden Triangle, bounded by the cities of Carlsbad, Vista and Oceanside.  These communities have so much to offer residents and visitors here.  As I regain my strength and energy from my hospital stay last month I am gradually getting out and enjoying some activities I took for granted before.

Both Carlsbad and Vista offer a series of movies year round that are free to the public.  Some of the movies have been voted on by attendees and others are selected by city staff.  Last week I saw “Argo” the best picture nominee at this year’s Oscars.  It was at the Carlsbad Dove Library.

While a wrote an article about it then, I felt because I had a negative reaction to it folks would think that I am negative.  After much pondering I realized this is an old tape of mine.  I now know nothing could be further from the truth.  Because a person doesn’t like something, an idea, book, place, etc. does not make that person negative or anti-something.  It merely reflects their point of view!  Whereas a negative person is quite different and easy to detect.

The Carlsbad screening always has a lively before and after 30 minute discussion of the movie, the actors, why and where it is filmed, and what the theme is about led by film buff, Ann Zivostsky.  Last week, at the movie’s end, Ann told us that the ending of the movie was not true to the real life events, that it had been embellished to give it a zing.  I was disappointed to hear this. 

But that is not why I didn’t like the movie.  Overall, I found the photography very dark throughout and the characters quite stiff.  I would like to have known more about them personally.  What jobs did they hold at the American embassy?  Why did they accept a post to Iran?  How long had each served and had they befriended any locals, or adapted to the food and customs there?  So, I felt it lacked some opportunities to get to know them better.

Next week I’m off to Vista to see “Lincoln.”  I am really looking forward to it as he is one of my favorite Presidents.  The cast seems superb and tailor made.  I will probably make some comparisons and come up with my own view of “best picture.”

Meanwhile, I’m so grateful to have these wonderful resources to take advantage of. And, the price couldn’t be better!  See you at the movies!

Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663

http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com

Copyright© 2013 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you.

HOME FROM THE HOSPITAL

By Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG

It is so good to be home from the hospital and enjoying my home, garden, and precious little cockapoodle – Teddy!!  He was what I missed most and since it was the first time we had been separated since I got him 2.5 years ago, I was concerned as to how he would survive in new temporary surroundings.

As it turned out I need not have worried.  He was staying with friends of friends as a last minute resource.  Others had said they’d take care of Teddy for me, but unfortunately none of them came through.  When push came to shove, I pulled out all the stops and called the wonderful computer repairer, Dave Russell whom I’d just done business with.  He had said he had a dog and perhaps that’s why Teddy was barking at him when he came to fix my computer.  I asked him if he knew anyone who would take Teddy in as I was expecting an ambulance to rush me to the hospital at any minute.  He said did have a friend who might be willing to take Teddy but she had two small dogs of her own. 

Don’t you know when Dave took me to pick Teddy up days later, the little bugger was thoroughly enjoying himself.  He was sitting on the owner’s lap and playing happily with the other two dogs.  He was totally oblivious to me.  I truly thanked God for this unexpected outcome and realized how powerful prayer and faith can be in a time of crises. 

While in the hospital I did a lot of meditating and I finished the book “Reset” by Stephen Kinzer about the future of the Middle East, the many countries involved, and America’s possible future role in it.  I learned so much about history, geography, politics, mind sets, etc.  A truly engrossing and well worth reading book.  I will keep it as a reference and know I’ll reread chapters again.

I will be writing shortly about some of the meditating I did and how I view my life today.  I realize now how useless it is to beat up on myself for things I didn’t do, golden opportunities missed, blaming others for outcomes, regretting relationships never pursued, etc.  As a result, I feel like I am finally travelling “lighter” and getting rid of some of the emotional clutter that I’ve allowed to define me!

 Maybe the trip to the hospital with complications from pneumonia was really a blessing in disguise?  H'm.... Stay tuned.

Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663

http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com

Copyright© 2013 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you.