Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G
As we wrap up the year 2010 I can honestly say “It was a great year of learning on many different levels for me. Most importantly, I learned not to second guess anyone or any situation. I learned that stress can bring on another bout with shingles, so I need to stay cool and not let anyone push my buttons! Hence, it’s important for me to avoid toxic people and stick with those who support me and who I enjoy supporting. Finally, I am aware that Life is not a dress rehearsal!
Yes, I’ve been procrastinating on writing the great American novel. I’ve been too busy being critical of my writing style and thinking I’m not enough to be taken more seriously. What rubbish and how demeaning these thoughts can be. Now, I’m willing to launch some metaphysical/self-help eBooks that I truly believe will benefit others.
In the New Year I intend to have more fun, stop being so critical of myself, enjoy all my writing efforts, and spend more time with my oil paints and canvases because those two wonderful talents help me get centered and stay in the NOW.
All my doctors gave me high marks for greatly improved health. Much as I wanted to deny it because I didn’t reach my goal of walking 1-2 miles daily, sans walker and oxygen by Christmas. But, at least I treated myself to a walker and get around my neighborhood with my little Shih-Tzu, Krissy, just fine. This Holiday Season we were both dressed in red. When folks stopped to chat with us, I told them to be careful because “The Redcoats are coming!” This brought out big laughs and comedic talent, even from total strangers.
I can honestly say that I will look back on 2010 with benevolence and gratitude for all the people who touched my life, who helped me without my asking for help, and who encouraged me to share my gifts with others. Since, even my doctors said my new addiction, Genealogy, is a great opportunity to keep the little grey cells active, I’ve also decided to write and conduct some workshops for seniors who need to learn the blessings of being active, and getting in touch with what truly excites them. There is so much I want to share, from the lessons I’ve learned from my own life, and now is the perfect time to do that.
May 2011 be a wonderful year for you, for our planet Earth, and especially for our armed forces, wherever they may be! May this New Year resonate with peace, love and happiness for all!
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you
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Friday, December 31, 2010
2010 - YEAR END REFLECTIONS!
Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G
As we wrap up the year 2010 I can honestly say “It was a great year of learning on many different levels for me. Most importantly, I learned not to second guess anyone or any situation. I learned that stress can bring on another bout with shingles, so I need to stay cool and not let anyone push my buttons! Hence, it’s important for me to avoid toxic people and stick with those who support me and who I enjoy supporting. Finally, I am aware that Life is not a dress rehearsal!
Yes, I’ve been procrastinating on writing the great American novel. I’ve been too busy being critical of my writing style and thinking I’m not enough to be taken more seriously. What rubbish and how demeaning these thoughts can be. Now, I’m willing to launch some metaphysical/self-help eBooks that I truly believe will benefit others.
In the New Year I intend to have more fun, stop being so critical of myself, enjoy all my writing efforts, and spend more time with my oil paints and canvases because those two wonderful talents help me get centered and stay in the NOW.
All my doctors gave me high marks for greatly improved health. Much as I wanted to deny it because I didn’t reach my goal of walking 1-2 miles daily, sans walker and oxygen by Christmas. But, at least I treated myself to a walker and get around my neighborhood with my little Shih-Tzu, Krissy, just fine. This Holiday Season we were both dressed in red. When folks stopped to chat with us, I told them to be careful because “The Redcoats are coming!” This brought out big laughs and comedic talent, even from total strangers.
I can honestly say that I will look back on 2010 with benevolence and gratitude for all the people who touched my life, who helped me without my asking for help, and who encouraged me to share my gifts with others. Since, even my doctors said my new addiction, Genealogy, is a great opportunity to keep the little grey cells active, I’ve also decided to write and conduct some workshops for seniors who need to learn the blessings of being active, and getting in touch with what truly excites them. There is so much I want to share, from the lessons I’ve learned from my own life, and now is the perfect time to do that.
May 2011 be a wonderful year for you, for our planet Earth, and especially for our armed forces, wherever they may be! May this New Year resonate with peace, love and happiness for all!
.
As we wrap up the year 2010 I can honestly say “It was a great year of learning on many different levels for me. Most importantly, I learned not to second guess anyone or any situation. I learned that stress can bring on another bout with shingles, so I need to stay cool and not let anyone push my buttons! Hence, it’s important for me to avoid toxic people and stick with those who support me and who I enjoy supporting. Finally, I am aware that Life is not a dress rehearsal!
Yes, I’ve been procrastinating on writing the great American novel. I’ve been too busy being critical of my writing style and thinking I’m not enough to be taken more seriously. What rubbish and how demeaning these thoughts can be. Now, I’m willing to launch some metaphysical/self-help eBooks that I truly believe will benefit others.
In the New Year I intend to have more fun, stop being so critical of myself, enjoy all my writing efforts, and spend more time with my oil paints and canvases because those two wonderful talents help me get centered and stay in the NOW.
All my doctors gave me high marks for greatly improved health. Much as I wanted to deny it because I didn’t reach my goal of walking 1-2 miles daily, sans walker and oxygen by Christmas. But, at least I treated myself to a walker and get around my neighborhood with my little Shih-Tzu, Krissy, just fine. This Holiday Season we were both dressed in red. When folks stopped to chat with us, I told them to be careful because “The Redcoats are coming!” This brought out big laughs and comedic talent, even from total strangers.
I can honestly say that I will look back on 2010 with benevolence and gratitude for all the people who touched my life, who helped me without my asking for help, and who encouraged me to share my gifts with others. Since, even my doctors said my new addiction, Genealogy, is a great opportunity to keep the little grey cells active, I’ve also decided to write and conduct some workshops for seniors who need to learn the blessings of being active, and getting in touch with what truly excites them. There is so much I want to share, from the lessons I’ve learned from my own life, and now is the perfect time to do that.
May 2011 be a wonderful year for you, for our planet Earth, and especially for our armed forces, wherever they may be! May this New Year resonate with peace, love and happiness for all!
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Tuesday, December 07, 2010
CUSTOMER SERVICE IS ALIVE AND WELL!
By Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G
Gas stations are not exactly known for their outstanding customer service especially if you’re not a regular customer. Imagine, my surprise to find an exception. Driving down Hwy. 5 to a recent doctor’s appointment from Oceanside, CA I saw a red light flash on my dashboard panel – OIL!
H’m this could be truly dangerous if I overlooked it or waited until I got back to Oceanside from Encinitas. Much as I hated to stop at any gas station I didn’t normally patronize I knew I must. So I pulled into the first gas station I could see as I exited the freeway in Encinitas– O’Brien Station at 310 Encinitas Blvd., Encinitas.
We’ve all heard stories about little old ladies (and I’m 77) being sold the Brooklyn Bridge by unscrupulous folks and I was dreading they’d tell me I needed a new engine, main gasket, etc. I tried to hide my fears as I walked inside the gas station for help and my tale of woe. I was warmly greeted by one of the O’Brien brothers and told him I needed gas and someone to check my oil. His brother came out to help me fill up my tank after I handed over my credit card. There are two O’Brien brothers, Bo and Devon, both 6 footers and quite handsome. Whichever one served me was unaware that my walker and oxygen tank where strewn across my backseat. (I didn’t want to look like a total victim after all).
He filled my tank to the amount I suggested not a penny more and told me to drive around the back and either Tony or Edgar would help me. When I got to the back of the gas station I was surprised to see so many women customers, all ages, there. One was getting a smog inspection, another some engine work, and another was just leaving after some work was completed.
All the inside pits were taken up so I parked along the side wall. While waiting, one of the O’Brien brothers called through from the front of the station to ask me if I was being helped. I said “Yes, Edgar is going to take me next.” Tony was still busy with another woman customer.
Edgar heard my tale of woe and opened the hood, checked the oil and said I needed a quart of oil. I said “How much is that?” waiting for the other shoe to drop. He said about $5.00. Whereupon I promptly told him to put it in. While finishing this he checked my water and brake fluid. Then I asked him if my tires were low and he checked them and put air in all of them! I asked him how much his service would be and he said there was no charge whereupon I gave him a nice tip.
While Edgar was tending to my car, Tony came over to say hello and regaled me with stories of England and my home town, London. He travelled there for over 9 years with an electronics company and was once stranded at Heathrow airport on Christmas Eve and said that no planes could take off after midnight. Hence, he and some other travelers bused it over to a nearby pub and celebrated Christmas!
I went to the front of the station to pay my bill. The full amount was less than $20 for gas and the quart of oil was only $4.33. I just couldn’t believe my good fortune to receive such excellent and joyful service from a gas station I had never visited before.
You can bet I will return whenever I am in the area. I feel like I’ve found some new friends and would like everyone, especially women, to know about the O’Brien station crew. Do me a favor and try them and let me know how you were treated.
Yes, folks, customer service is alive and well at the O’Brien Gas Station!
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you
Gas stations are not exactly known for their outstanding customer service especially if you’re not a regular customer. Imagine, my surprise to find an exception. Driving down Hwy. 5 to a recent doctor’s appointment from Oceanside, CA I saw a red light flash on my dashboard panel – OIL!
H’m this could be truly dangerous if I overlooked it or waited until I got back to Oceanside from Encinitas. Much as I hated to stop at any gas station I didn’t normally patronize I knew I must. So I pulled into the first gas station I could see as I exited the freeway in Encinitas– O’Brien Station at 310 Encinitas Blvd., Encinitas.
We’ve all heard stories about little old ladies (and I’m 77) being sold the Brooklyn Bridge by unscrupulous folks and I was dreading they’d tell me I needed a new engine, main gasket, etc. I tried to hide my fears as I walked inside the gas station for help and my tale of woe. I was warmly greeted by one of the O’Brien brothers and told him I needed gas and someone to check my oil. His brother came out to help me fill up my tank after I handed over my credit card. There are two O’Brien brothers, Bo and Devon, both 6 footers and quite handsome. Whichever one served me was unaware that my walker and oxygen tank where strewn across my backseat. (I didn’t want to look like a total victim after all).
He filled my tank to the amount I suggested not a penny more and told me to drive around the back and either Tony or Edgar would help me. When I got to the back of the gas station I was surprised to see so many women customers, all ages, there. One was getting a smog inspection, another some engine work, and another was just leaving after some work was completed.
All the inside pits were taken up so I parked along the side wall. While waiting, one of the O’Brien brothers called through from the front of the station to ask me if I was being helped. I said “Yes, Edgar is going to take me next.” Tony was still busy with another woman customer.
Edgar heard my tale of woe and opened the hood, checked the oil and said I needed a quart of oil. I said “How much is that?” waiting for the other shoe to drop. He said about $5.00. Whereupon I promptly told him to put it in. While finishing this he checked my water and brake fluid. Then I asked him if my tires were low and he checked them and put air in all of them! I asked him how much his service would be and he said there was no charge whereupon I gave him a nice tip.
While Edgar was tending to my car, Tony came over to say hello and regaled me with stories of England and my home town, London. He travelled there for over 9 years with an electronics company and was once stranded at Heathrow airport on Christmas Eve and said that no planes could take off after midnight. Hence, he and some other travelers bused it over to a nearby pub and celebrated Christmas!
I went to the front of the station to pay my bill. The full amount was less than $20 for gas and the quart of oil was only $4.33. I just couldn’t believe my good fortune to receive such excellent and joyful service from a gas station I had never visited before.
You can bet I will return whenever I am in the area. I feel like I’ve found some new friends and would like everyone, especially women, to know about the O’Brien station crew. Do me a favor and try them and let me know how you were treated.
Yes, folks, customer service is alive and well at the O’Brien Gas Station!
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you
Saturday, November 20, 2010
‘TIS BETTER TO GIVE THAN RECEIVE!
By Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
We’ve probably all heard the old adage ‘Tis Better to Give Than to Receive.” But until we actually put it into practice they are probably just empty words. Sure, receiving is fun but the sense of well being, gratitude, and happiness you get from giving or helping others, especially those less fortunate than us, is truly phenomenal! It’s something you can’t put a price tag on, It’s a feeling of overwhelming joy!
This is a great time of year to put that old adage into practice! This Tuesday I had the opportunity to do just that. I planned and mapped out a route that took in three of my favorite recipients all located in Oceanside, California:
“Welcome Home Ministries” off Mission and Barnes Avenue. They help women coming out of jail to get back on their feet and re-entry into society again. Those women need just about everything because most only have the clothes they stand up in. I usually take gently worn suits, jackets, slacks, tops, shoes, handbags, they can use for further court appearances, or interviewing. But, this time I also had some Holiday and evening items. The Reverend Carmen Warner-Robbins heads this group. You can also call 760-439-6381 for more information.
Next stop was the San Diego Humane Society & SPCA located at 2905 San Luis Rey Road, (760) 757-4357. I had some worn, queen-size woolen blankets and some open dog food and biscuits. Unfortunately, they could not accept opened food but were very grateful for the blankets and thanked me profusely. As usual, before I left I toured the facilities. Tears rapidly filled my eyes as I went from cage to cage talking to these beautiful, sad and lost animals. If I could, I would take and board all of them because they are all God’s creatures. I know when my little Shih-Tzu, Krissy, passes on I will be back here to take a little one home with me.
My last stop was the new Oceanside El Corazon Senior Center just off Oceanside Blvd. (760) 435-5300. I had 25 books to donate to their Library. The gentleman who helped me told me to look around and see if there were any books I’d like to trade. Forty five minutes later I emerged with four wonderful books, a mystery thriller, a metaphysical book, an autobiography and a political expose. Wow, these were truly a win-win situation!
As the Holidays approach, I hope I’ve given you some ideas on how you can help others. The beauty is that you don’t have to go out and buy things from scratch and spend a lot of money. Rather, you can donate items you’ve already bought and had fun using. There are always people in the wings, less fortunate, who would love to have your second-hands.
As I finally drove home I was on a real natural high, the kind you can never get from medications. I smiled to myself and said, Shirley “Tis Better to Give Than to Receive!”
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you.
We’ve probably all heard the old adage ‘Tis Better to Give Than to Receive.” But until we actually put it into practice they are probably just empty words. Sure, receiving is fun but the sense of well being, gratitude, and happiness you get from giving or helping others, especially those less fortunate than us, is truly phenomenal! It’s something you can’t put a price tag on, It’s a feeling of overwhelming joy!
This is a great time of year to put that old adage into practice! This Tuesday I had the opportunity to do just that. I planned and mapped out a route that took in three of my favorite recipients all located in Oceanside, California:
“Welcome Home Ministries” off Mission and Barnes Avenue. They help women coming out of jail to get back on their feet and re-entry into society again. Those women need just about everything because most only have the clothes they stand up in. I usually take gently worn suits, jackets, slacks, tops, shoes, handbags, they can use for further court appearances, or interviewing. But, this time I also had some Holiday and evening items. The Reverend Carmen Warner-Robbins heads this group. You can also call 760-439-6381 for more information.
Next stop was the San Diego Humane Society & SPCA located at 2905 San Luis Rey Road, (760) 757-4357. I had some worn, queen-size woolen blankets and some open dog food and biscuits. Unfortunately, they could not accept opened food but were very grateful for the blankets and thanked me profusely. As usual, before I left I toured the facilities. Tears rapidly filled my eyes as I went from cage to cage talking to these beautiful, sad and lost animals. If I could, I would take and board all of them because they are all God’s creatures. I know when my little Shih-Tzu, Krissy, passes on I will be back here to take a little one home with me.
My last stop was the new Oceanside El Corazon Senior Center just off Oceanside Blvd. (760) 435-5300. I had 25 books to donate to their Library. The gentleman who helped me told me to look around and see if there were any books I’d like to trade. Forty five minutes later I emerged with four wonderful books, a mystery thriller, a metaphysical book, an autobiography and a political expose. Wow, these were truly a win-win situation!
As the Holidays approach, I hope I’ve given you some ideas on how you can help others. The beauty is that you don’t have to go out and buy things from scratch and spend a lot of money. Rather, you can donate items you’ve already bought and had fun using. There are always people in the wings, less fortunate, who would love to have your second-hands.
As I finally drove home I was on a real natural high, the kind you can never get from medications. I smiled to myself and said, Shirley “Tis Better to Give Than to Receive!”
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
FUN WITH GENEALOGY!
By Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
I must confess I have a new addiction – GENEALOGY! Last weekend I spent time at the Georgina Cole Library and the Carlsbad City Council Chambers in Carlsbad, California. Saturday included a 9 AM-3 PM seminar “Beginner & Refresher Genealogy Class “ presented by the North San Diego County Genealogical Society. Speakers included Margaret Reid and Marti Meiners. Topics included: Getting Started, Record Keeping, Census Records, Wills & Probate, Land Records By the end of the day I was hooked on genealogy!
What was even more amazing is that there was no fee or tuition for this seminar! Yet we had so much information given to us by experts, including brightly colored packages with pages of resources and references. There was only a small “donation” jar at the back of the room if we wanted to use it.
These dedicated women used a Power Point presentation of slides to give us even more information and examples of how to go about finding out who are ancestors were.. To say it was fascinating is an understatement.
On Sunday, we were graciously invited back to the Carlsbad Library by Margaret Read to learn how to access computer/on line databases/sites available to the general public to do further research. The entire upper floor of the library is dedicated to geneology: Books, CDs, computers, printers, reference desk, maps, etc. Perhaps the most exciting thing I discovered is that I can access all the databases at the Library with my Carlsbad library card, at no charge, from the comforts of my home! This saves multiple trips over to the library, wear and tear on my car and gasoline savings! It also means I can be at this 24/7. H’m, now is that addicting or not?
By the end of the weekend I joined the North San Diego County Genealogical Society for only $25.00 membership. I am also thinking of investigating The Daughters of the British Empire (DBE) since I was born in London, England. They are very active here in North County. If you are American born you might like to check out The Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR).
I hope I’ve spiked your interest to investigate your ancestors! For more information on all the classes, seminars, speakers etc. contact the Carlsbad City Library Genealogy Desk: 760-434- 2931, or www.carlsbadlibrary.org.
Happy Hunting
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you.
I must confess I have a new addiction – GENEALOGY! Last weekend I spent time at the Georgina Cole Library and the Carlsbad City Council Chambers in Carlsbad, California. Saturday included a 9 AM-3 PM seminar “Beginner & Refresher Genealogy Class “ presented by the North San Diego County Genealogical Society. Speakers included Margaret Reid and Marti Meiners. Topics included: Getting Started, Record Keeping, Census Records, Wills & Probate, Land Records By the end of the day I was hooked on genealogy!
What was even more amazing is that there was no fee or tuition for this seminar! Yet we had so much information given to us by experts, including brightly colored packages with pages of resources and references. There was only a small “donation” jar at the back of the room if we wanted to use it.
These dedicated women used a Power Point presentation of slides to give us even more information and examples of how to go about finding out who are ancestors were.. To say it was fascinating is an understatement.
On Sunday, we were graciously invited back to the Carlsbad Library by Margaret Read to learn how to access computer/on line databases/sites available to the general public to do further research. The entire upper floor of the library is dedicated to geneology: Books, CDs, computers, printers, reference desk, maps, etc. Perhaps the most exciting thing I discovered is that I can access all the databases at the Library with my Carlsbad library card, at no charge, from the comforts of my home! This saves multiple trips over to the library, wear and tear on my car and gasoline savings! It also means I can be at this 24/7. H’m, now is that addicting or not?
By the end of the weekend I joined the North San Diego County Genealogical Society for only $25.00 membership. I am also thinking of investigating The Daughters of the British Empire (DBE) since I was born in London, England. They are very active here in North County. If you are American born you might like to check out The Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR).
I hope I’ve spiked your interest to investigate your ancestors! For more information on all the classes, seminars, speakers etc. contact the Carlsbad City Library Genealogy Desk: 760-434- 2931, or www.carlsbadlibrary.org.
Happy Hunting
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
LIFE IS VERY GOOD! ...
By Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G
October certainly exceeded my expectations in learning new things, meeting new people, making new friends, collecting a horde of books at annual library book sales, and receiving many requests for either articles I've written or posted on my blogs from folks all over the USA. I am truly tickled to be alive at this time.
This week two important events happened: I decided to raise the handlebars on my walker to see if that made any difference in my walking and back pain. It sure did! I can't believe the positive impact it has had on my health. I feel so much better and my posture is more erect, instead of leaning forward when I walk. This simple action has also relieved the low back pain I felt 24/7, especially when going to bed at night. I would literally cry out in pain as I lowered myself onto the mattress. That has now all gone and I'm ecstatic! Now my goal is definitely to be rid of the dependence on the walker altogether. I've set a new goal to be independent of it by Christmas. Whether that's realistic or not we'll see...
The 2nd event was the disappearance of my little Shih-Tzu, Krissy. I came home from my Carlsbad Toastmaster Club Thursday night, after a brief stop at Ralph's to pick up some items, and opened my front door with my arms loaded about 9:30 PM. Krissy came bounding out as she usually does when I arrive home to greet me. I put the groceries away thinking she would come right back in. I called her but no Krissy. H'm. At 10 o'clock I put my oxygen tank on, got a flashlight and extra batteries, and started out with my walker to look for her. I slowly combed the neighborhood flashing the light under cars in driveways, etc. No luck. I left the front porch light on all night and put a bowl of water on the step in case she came back and I had fallen asleep.
At midnight I was besides myself with anguish and jumped in my car and drove all over the neighborhood again searching for her. Nothing! Trying to sleep was useless. At 4 AM I dressed warmly and got flashlight and walker and headed out again. It took me a little over an hour to comb my neighborhood and still no luck in finding Krissy. I prayed God would keep her safe from the coyotes that roam around here.
Returning home exhausted, I sat on my sofa and turned on the TV. The 5 AM news came on. I couldn't believe how cheerful the newscasters were. It was almost obscene to me because I'm usually in deep dreams at that hour. About 5:45 AM I heard a small patter at the front door. I jumped up and lo and behold there was Krissy! I forced myself not to be mad at her, scooped her up in my arms and was astounded to find out she was bone dry! Meanwhile, I was soaking wet from perspiration and the light drizzle in the early dawn. She looked none the worse for wear and gave me that look "well, now you're up why don't you feed me!" At that point I would have given the little bugger anything she wanted.
Early Friday morning I cancelled her grooming appointment because I was so exhausted. I have no idea where she went or, if she will try that again. But, I am pleased she knows her way home and will be much more careful when opening my front door in the future.
Until you lose something, or someone, you often don't know how much it means to you. I think of Krissy as the daughter I never had. She's my true family and companion. I feel so blessed that God sent her safely home to me. Now I won't take her for granted anymore! Be sure you let those close to you know how much you love them! You never know when it will be the last time that you see them.
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com http://www.angelscross.blogspot.comhttp://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you
October certainly exceeded my expectations in learning new things, meeting new people, making new friends, collecting a horde of books at annual library book sales, and receiving many requests for either articles I've written or posted on my blogs from folks all over the USA. I am truly tickled to be alive at this time.
This week two important events happened: I decided to raise the handlebars on my walker to see if that made any difference in my walking and back pain. It sure did! I can't believe the positive impact it has had on my health. I feel so much better and my posture is more erect, instead of leaning forward when I walk. This simple action has also relieved the low back pain I felt 24/7, especially when going to bed at night. I would literally cry out in pain as I lowered myself onto the mattress. That has now all gone and I'm ecstatic! Now my goal is definitely to be rid of the dependence on the walker altogether. I've set a new goal to be independent of it by Christmas. Whether that's realistic or not we'll see...
The 2nd event was the disappearance of my little Shih-Tzu, Krissy. I came home from my Carlsbad Toastmaster Club Thursday night, after a brief stop at Ralph's to pick up some items, and opened my front door with my arms loaded about 9:30 PM. Krissy came bounding out as she usually does when I arrive home to greet me. I put the groceries away thinking she would come right back in. I called her but no Krissy. H'm. At 10 o'clock I put my oxygen tank on, got a flashlight and extra batteries, and started out with my walker to look for her. I slowly combed the neighborhood flashing the light under cars in driveways, etc. No luck. I left the front porch light on all night and put a bowl of water on the step in case she came back and I had fallen asleep.
At midnight I was besides myself with anguish and jumped in my car and drove all over the neighborhood again searching for her. Nothing! Trying to sleep was useless. At 4 AM I dressed warmly and got flashlight and walker and headed out again. It took me a little over an hour to comb my neighborhood and still no luck in finding Krissy. I prayed God would keep her safe from the coyotes that roam around here.
Returning home exhausted, I sat on my sofa and turned on the TV. The 5 AM news came on. I couldn't believe how cheerful the newscasters were. It was almost obscene to me because I'm usually in deep dreams at that hour. About 5:45 AM I heard a small patter at the front door. I jumped up and lo and behold there was Krissy! I forced myself not to be mad at her, scooped her up in my arms and was astounded to find out she was bone dry! Meanwhile, I was soaking wet from perspiration and the light drizzle in the early dawn. She looked none the worse for wear and gave me that look "well, now you're up why don't you feed me!" At that point I would have given the little bugger anything she wanted.
Early Friday morning I cancelled her grooming appointment because I was so exhausted. I have no idea where she went or, if she will try that again. But, I am pleased she knows her way home and will be much more careful when opening my front door in the future.
Until you lose something, or someone, you often don't know how much it means to you. I think of Krissy as the daughter I never had. She's my true family and companion. I feel so blessed that God sent her safely home to me. Now I won't take her for granted anymore! Be sure you let those close to you know how much you love them! You never know when it will be the last time that you see them.
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com http://www.angelscross.blogspot.comhttp://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you
Thursday, September 30, 2010
INCREDIBLE GROWTH MONTH!
By Shirley M. Carolan
September has turned out to be a month of incredible personal growth and health challenge. I had wanted to post another Recap of one of my Toastmaster Club meetings that I write. It follows. I will also be sharing my new project with you that I am very excited about shorly. Meanwhile, enjoy the recap!
RECAP OF SEPTEMBER 9, 2010 MEETING
Our Pledge of Allegiance got started on time by a very dapper Sgt.@ Arms, Jonathan Enerva. It’s good to see Jonathan taking his new role so seriously.
Pat Rarus did double duty tonight in the absence of President, Pat Partin. She conducted the Business Meeting adroitly reminding us of the Humorous Area Speech Contest on Sunday at Watkins Manufacturing in Vista and Debra Simpson who will represent our Club. She also introduced our new Treasurer, one of our newest Toastmasters, Carol Sheckler. Congratulations Carol for stepping up to the plate! Pat Rarus was also the Toastmaster of the evening. We had two guests: Ginnie Donaldson, a very stylish and upbeat resident of Carlsbad by the Sea, and Josh Hartman. Also, it was good to see Darrell Fulmore again after a long absence!
Pat then introduced our Table Topics Master, Jonathan Enerva who chose “curriculum” as the word of the day. Jonathan had some truly fascinating and challenging questions tonight with stacks of books to back up his theme. Shirley Carolan won the trophy for Best Table Topics.
We had two very good speakers tonight: Carol Sheckler and Richard Rettig. Carol gave speech #10 from the basic manual: “Flowers Just Bloom.” She also gave us this poem as a handout which is something all can enjoy. Richard Rettig did a departure from his usual speeches by giving a speech from the Advanced Story Telling Manual : “A Gnome.” It was quite humorous and kept us on edge until the finale. Unfortunately, both our speakers ran overtime.
Cindy Parker was our General Evaluator and introduced our two evaluators: Shirley Carolan and Dan McKeon. Shirley evaluated Carol Sheckler’s speech giving her high marks for following all the objectives of her speech giving her some improvement tips and even complementing her when she forgot her lines. Dan McKeon did a very thorough and helpful evaluation of Richard’s speech. Shirley Carolan won the trophy for Best Evaluator.
We had several new Toastmasters as functionaries tonight. They all did an outstanding job in their respective roles. Scott Trulove gave a masterful report as Grammarian. Leo McFall manned the timing lights and Darrell Fulmore was our Ah Counter.
Ginnie bade us farewell early but Josh remained to give us high marks especially after visiting other Toastmaster clubs. Methinks we have a new member in the wings here!
Till next time,
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
VP-PR
Tick Talk Toastmasters
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you
bY
September has turned out to be a month of incredible personal growth and health challenge. I had wanted to post another Recap of one of my Toastmaster Club meetings that I write. It follows. I will also be sharing my new project with you that I am very excited about shorly. Meanwhile, enjoy the recap!
RECAP OF SEPTEMBER 9, 2010 MEETING
Our Pledge of Allegiance got started on time by a very dapper Sgt.@ Arms, Jonathan Enerva. It’s good to see Jonathan taking his new role so seriously.
Pat Rarus did double duty tonight in the absence of President, Pat Partin. She conducted the Business Meeting adroitly reminding us of the Humorous Area Speech Contest on Sunday at Watkins Manufacturing in Vista and Debra Simpson who will represent our Club. She also introduced our new Treasurer, one of our newest Toastmasters, Carol Sheckler. Congratulations Carol for stepping up to the plate! Pat Rarus was also the Toastmaster of the evening. We had two guests: Ginnie Donaldson, a very stylish and upbeat resident of Carlsbad by the Sea, and Josh Hartman. Also, it was good to see Darrell Fulmore again after a long absence!
Pat then introduced our Table Topics Master, Jonathan Enerva who chose “curriculum” as the word of the day. Jonathan had some truly fascinating and challenging questions tonight with stacks of books to back up his theme. Shirley Carolan won the trophy for Best Table Topics.
We had two very good speakers tonight: Carol Sheckler and Richard Rettig. Carol gave speech #10 from the basic manual: “Flowers Just Bloom.” She also gave us this poem as a handout which is something all can enjoy. Richard Rettig did a departure from his usual speeches by giving a speech from the Advanced Story Telling Manual : “A Gnome.” It was quite humorous and kept us on edge until the finale. Unfortunately, both our speakers ran overtime.
Cindy Parker was our General Evaluator and introduced our two evaluators: Shirley Carolan and Dan McKeon. Shirley evaluated Carol Sheckler’s speech giving her high marks for following all the objectives of her speech giving her some improvement tips and even complementing her when she forgot her lines. Dan McKeon did a very thorough and helpful evaluation of Richard’s speech. Shirley Carolan won the trophy for Best Evaluator.
We had several new Toastmasters as functionaries tonight. They all did an outstanding job in their respective roles. Scott Trulove gave a masterful report as Grammarian. Leo McFall manned the timing lights and Darrell Fulmore was our Ah Counter.
Ginnie bade us farewell early but Josh remained to give us high marks especially after visiting other Toastmaster clubs. Methinks we have a new member in the wings here!
Till next time,
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
VP-PR
Tick Talk Toastmasters
Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663
http://www.shirleycarolan.com
http://www.angelscross.blogspot.com
http://www.smcarolan.blogspot.com
Copyright© 2010 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you
bY
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