Saturday, March 23, 2013

THE GOLDEN TRIANGLE


By Shirley M. Carolan, ATM-G

I am so lucky to live in the Golden Triangle, bounded by the cities of Carlsbad, Vista and Oceanside.  These communities have so much to offer residents and visitors here.  As I regain my strength and energy from my hospital stay last month I am gradually getting out and enjoying some activities I took for granted before.

Both Carlsbad and Vista offer a series of movies year round that are free to the public.  Some of the movies have been voted on by attendees and others are selected by city staff.  Last week I saw “Argo” the best picture nominee at this year’s Oscars.  It was at the Carlsbad Dove Library.

While a wrote an article about it then, I felt because I had a negative reaction to it folks would think that I am negative.  After much pondering I realized this is an old tape of mine.  I now know nothing could be further from the truth.  Because a person doesn’t like something, an idea, book, place, etc. does not make that person negative or anti-something.  It merely reflects their point of view!  Whereas a negative person is quite different and easy to detect.
The Carlsbad screening always has a lively before and after 30 minute discussion of the movie, the actors, why and where it is filmed, and what the theme is about led by film buff, Ann Zivostsky.  Last week, at the movie’s end, Ann told us that the ending of the movie was not true to the real life events, that it had been embellished to give it a zing.  I was disappointed to hear this. 

But that is not why I didn’t like the movie.  Overall, I found the photography very dark throughout and the characters quite stiff.  I would like to have known more about them personally.  What jobs did they hold at the American embassy?  Why did they accept a post to Iran?  How long had each served and had they befriended any locals, or adapted to the food and customs there?  So, I felt it lacked some opportunities to get to know them better.

Next week I’m off to Vista to see “Lincoln.”  I am really looking forward to it as he is one of my favorite Presidents.  The cast seems superb and tailor made.  I will probably make some comparisons and come up with my own view of “best picture.”

Meanwhile, I’m so grateful to have these wonderful resources to take advantage of. And, the price couldn’t be better!  See you at the movies!

Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663

Copyright© 2013 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you.

Sunday, March 03, 2013

HOME FROM THE HOSPITAL


By Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG

It is so good to be home from the hospital and enjoying my home, garden, and precious little cockapoodle – Teddy!!  He was what I missed most and since it was the first time we had been separated since I got him 2.5 years ago, I was concerned as to how he would survive in new temporary surroundings.

As it turned out I need not have worried.  He was staying with friends of friends as a last minute resource.  Others had said they’d take care of Teddy for me, but unfortunately none of them came through.  When push came to shove, I pulled out all the stops and called the wonderful computer repairer, Dave Russell whom I’d just done business with.  He had said he had a dog and perhaps that’s why Teddy was barking at him when he came to fix my computer.  I asked him if he knew anyone who would take Teddy in as I was expecting an ambulance to rush me to the hospital at any minute.  He said did have a friend who might be willing to take Teddy but she had two small dogs of her own. 

Don’t you know when Dave took me to pick Teddy up days later, the little bugger was thoroughly enjoying himself.  He was sitting on the owner’s lap and playing happily with the other two dogs.  He was totally oblivious to me.  I truly thanked God for this unexpected outcome and realized how powerful prayer and faith can be in a time of crises. 

While in the hospital I did a lot of meditating and I finished the book “Reset” by Stephen Kinzer about the future of the Middle East, the many countries involved, and America’s possible future role in it.  I learned so much about history, geography, politics, mind sets, etc.  A truly engrossing and well worth reading book.  I will keep it as a reference and know I’ll reread chapters again.

I will be writing shortly about some of the meditating I did and how I view my life today.  I realize now how useless it is to beat up on myself for things I didn’t do, golden opportunities missed, blaming others for outcomes, regretting relationships never pursued, etc.  As a result, I feel like I am finally travelling “lighter” and getting rid of some of the emotional clutter that I’ve allowed to define me!

 Maybe the trip to the hospital with complications from pneumonia was really a blessing in disguise?  H'm.... Stay tuned.


Shirley M. Carolan, ATMG
Writer ● Speaker ● Artist
artistwithaflair@att.net
Phone/Fax: 760-732-0663

Copyright© 2013 by Shirley M. Carolan. All rights reserved. To reprint any part of this article simply contact Shirley Carolan at artistwithaflair@att.net. Thank you.